tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7829654550436548440.post8049619238267922659..comments2023-12-15T17:35:47.962-08:00Comments on Earth to Thoeba: Goodnight, Sweet SullyThoebahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06897643434266552322noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7829654550436548440.post-52457378864263242902013-08-08T14:07:06.906-07:002013-08-08T14:07:06.906-07:00Thank you Cathy. It does feel like I've lost a...Thank you Cathy. It does feel like I've lost a child. I'm going to have a memorial for him, and I'm finding that telling funny stories about him seems to help.Thoebahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897643434266552322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7829654550436548440.post-49099276666820048712013-08-08T13:08:59.553-07:002013-08-08T13:08:59.553-07:00I am so sorry for your loss..... I love my fur bab...I am so sorry for your loss..... I love my fur babies as much as they were my human babies. This is never easy. Sending you my love!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14845719011460957175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7829654550436548440.post-18755944477590085402013-08-08T12:55:12.102-07:002013-08-08T12:55:12.102-07:00Thanks Cynthia. I think the dam of pain just broke...Thanks Cynthia. I think the dam of pain just broke. I'm able to talk about how much he made me laugh with a friend. I'm probably going to be okay soon.Thoebahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897643434266552322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7829654550436548440.post-41256187817453317072013-08-08T12:19:36.841-07:002013-08-08T12:19:36.841-07:00I'm so sorry for the loss of your Sully. You h...I'm so sorry for the loss of your Sully. You have to turn that hole and emptiness in your heart into something positive and productive. Try writing a short story or some poems about your feelings that may help other people. <br />Right before I got on Facebook and read your blog about Sully, I was talking with a friend and telling him how my dreams were upsetting me. My subconscious creates vivid dreams about people who are no longer in my life. I made choices and have to live with the consequences. The insurmountable guilt was destroying me. Writing about it has been helping. No one can reorder parts of our lives that have already been lived. We cannot go back and make different choices. You deserve to feel better. <br />It does not matter if Sully was a cat or a person; your pain is the same. Life is a brief, mysterious--gift. You have to make a conscious decision not to beat yourself up any more. <br />It was Sully's time. Honor Sully by accepting that every day is a gift; our time is so precious. You are a writer. Be creative and write something that will be therapeutic for you and will help others.Cynthia Gimbronenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7829654550436548440.post-78728880322282513632013-08-08T11:52:46.917-07:002013-08-08T11:52:46.917-07:00I know...Thanks Kevin <3I know...Thanks Kevin <3Thoebahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897643434266552322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7829654550436548440.post-20219669586822200142013-08-08T11:39:14.104-07:002013-08-08T11:39:14.104-07:00Wonderful blog filled with true emotion but blamin...Wonderful blog filled with true emotion but blaming yourself is wrong. Life happens for a reason. It was Sillys time and if it was meant to be there is nothing you could have done to change it. He is at peace and you need to find the peace in yourself for Dan, Freya and Mr Spartacus Jones. Be well my friendAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16918462016481690119noreply@blogger.com