A Little More Love.

Whoever wrote this, Thank you

Last week, I went out for dinner with my husband. It was a sushi place called Kyoto, just a block or so away from where he works, and usually I enjoy myself.

I wasn't in a good mood. My summer has been overwhelming, and I can never seem to get enough work done. I have a virus on my computer that is driving me insane, and between the tension and all the hours I've spent here trying to:
A) Get rid of Bing, and restore Google Chrome

B) Uninstall various unwanted programs.

C) Get some work done.

I've given myself a weird backache. It feels like I pulled a muscle right behind my shoulder blade that spreads to all the way around it. I actually think I've been using this arm too much from clicking, but I can't make it better, because I have to keep repeating A, B, and C. Grrrr...

So after picking at my room temperature Chirashi stale overcooked rice, I went to the ladies room. While washing my hands, I noticed a shelf behind me that held mouthwash, disposable cups and an artificial plant. I helped myself to a swig of mouthwash and I noticed something odd sticking out from the potted plant. It was the note and knitted heart you see in the photo above.

On the envelope, it says "The world needs more love letters!! This is for you! <3" It also said, "Open and Read me!!" So I did.

Inside was a note that says, "Hello Beautiful. Just for you, just because. Hope this will brighten your day. No matter what happens, be strong because things will get better. Never lose hope or faith. Just keep smiling because you are beautiful."

Well, thank you, kind stranger. Thanks for the smile. It turns out this is the doing of someone from http://www.moreloveletters.com/ Have you seen this yet? What a cute idea! I love it!

To think, there's people around the world, who just write positive little notes to brighten a strangers day. What a sweet idea. Has anyone else ever seen or heard of this? I'd love to hear about it :D

Happy Gay Pride Month!!

This is the book cover. Obviously.

Happy Gay Pride Month! June is the month we celebrate those of the Rainbow Flag. Although I am not homosexual myself, I have many friends and a brother-in-law who are. I am proud to call myself an ally. If that offends you, I don't care.

I also know authors who write LGBT, and I'd like to introduce you to one. Introducing...

T.M.  SMITH!!

Calendar year 2081. Our planet has finally succumbed to Global Warming.

Dr. Anthony Smith, one of only a few thousand people to survive Global Warming Ignition, has come to the conclusion that the destruction of our planet and society had been due to Injudicious Breeding which lead (in his opinion) to over population, WAR, unnatural climate changes, lower intelligence, poor physical health, poverty, lust and greed. Having isolated the Dionysus gene, he decided to start society anew by manipulating Human DNA to ensure all their offspring would be born Gay/Lesbian. Thus creating a society where Gay/Lesbian is the norm... to be straight labels you an Opposite and makes you an Outkast.

~ Nature Versus Nurture ~

Some 200 years later Dr. Smith’s descendants have maintained control of the Government that rules society. House Gaeland rules their lands, as well as the other 6 countries that survived GWI. Twins, Aiya and Aiyan, are next in line to rule alongside their soon to be wife and husband. There is, however, a growing anomaly; one that threatens to unravel over 200 years of progress. This anomaly is known as Opposites.

About T.M. Smith: A military brat born and raised at Ft. Benning Georgia; Smith is an avid reader, reviewer and writer.  She now calls Texas home from her small town on the outskirts of the DFW Metroplex.  Most days you can find her curled up with her kindle and a good book alongside a glass of something aged and red or a steaming cup of coffee! 

At 42 years young, she’s decided to enter the next phase of her life by adding the title of “author” to her list of accomplishments that includes single mom of three disturbingly outspoken and decidedly different kids, one of which is Autistic.  Her two eldest kids and gay best friend were the inspiration for her upcoming new release, Opposites.  

Tammy has been in the writing community for a LOONG time, first as a blogger, now as a writer, with 'Opposites' being her first novel. She followed that up with 'The Library'. As you can see, she is a proud ally as well. Check her out and help her support the LGBT community <3

Check this out!

I Have a Blog Tour!

 I was going to start by telling you how excited I am for my blog next week. Trouble is, it started on Monday. Holy Moly where does the time go these days? It started on the 26th...which I thought was NEXT week. So this week's blog is a day early.

I love bloggers who sign up for tours. LOVE. THEM. Because they work hard to give honest reviews and spread the word about an authors work. They are a great way to market, which is something I hate doing.

Thanks everyone! Cheers!

Image by: Vichaya Kiatying-Angsulee@FreeDigitalPhotos.net

 Here's the ones that have been published since Monday. You can still enter the contests!

http://girlsheartbookstours.blogspot.ca/2014/05/touring-now-aphrodites-war-by-donna.html#more

http://beccaannesbookreviews.blogspot.ca/2014/05/aphrodites-war-by-donna-milward-blog.html?spref=fb

http://www.ttcbooksandmore.com/2014/05/aphrodites-war-blog-tour-from-ghbt.html

http://dealsharingaunt.blogspot.ca/2014/05/aphrodites-war-by-donna-milward-top-ten.html

Suppose There are Contest Winners

Or suppose only three people entered the contest. Sigh...I think my next blog should be called "Why don't people enter my contests?"

Kathy Steinemann was completely awesome to give me a couple more e-book copies, so I didn't have to choose from the three people I know who were nice enough to comment last week.

In order of their comments:

Kevin Warren. Thanks for being my first fan, and for always sticking by me and my work.

jlotus, my sister. Thanks sweetie. You were actually supposed to say WHY you deserve one, but it's my blog, and I'm giving you one for supporting me.

And Colleen Sundby. She really is my oldest friend, as I've known her since I was three years old. And she's still in my corner. Thanks buddy <3

I'll be contacting all three of you shortly to get your e-mails to send your certificates. Thanks again for entering. That is all.

'Suppose' I Have a Contest?

This is the cover! Thanks Kathy!

Surprise! I wrote a short story for a collection. Believe me, it was an unexpected opportunity for me, and I'm surprised I managed to get it done.

Why? Because I found out about it shortly after Christmas, and also because I PANTSED it. I almost never do that, because I rarely finish when I try it. Also, I hadn't actually written a short story since high school! Uh-oh...

Am I crazy? Why did I say yes? Why did I willingly sign up for this?

Because Kathy Steinemann asked me to. Because I admire her work and was flattered she asked me to contribute. 

It was a little scary. I'd made a commitment to a story I wasn't sure I could write. But sometimes you have to go for it.

"Decide you want it more than you are afraid of it"--Bill Cosby. I never want fear to hold me back.

So I did it. And I'm glad. I just did two things I don't normally do. I wrote a short story AND I wrote it without a clear outline, off the top of my head. I also did it on a set deadline. It's called 'The Guardian's Angel.' It was named by contest winner Amanda Phillips.

Now I realize I'm doing something else. By contributing to this book, I'm getting more exposure for my work, my brand...Now THAT is free advertising.

So thank you, Kathy for the opportunity. I appreciate it very much <3 And thank you for the e-book copy of 'Suppose' I can give away!

All you have to do to win, is tell me here in the comment section, or here https://www.facebook.com/DonnaMilwardAuthor on my author page. (Feel free to join.) Why I should give it to you. :)

Contest winner will be published and notified next week.

Plotter or Pantser?

Photo By: DavidCastilloDominici@FreeDigitalPhotos.net

There's really only two types of writers...Plotters or Pantsers. We all have different ideas of what that means to us and different reasons for writing the way we do.

Pantsers are aptly named. They're the ones who compose by 'the seat of their pants'. My friend Tammy Kane, who wrote "Breath of Fire", is a pantser. When I asked her why, she said. "I like just writing with an idea in mind. It keeps me interested because I'm dying to know how it ends." Not a bad idea at all, I'd say. If you can stick with your manuscript day after day, typing away going who knows where with your story, I say run with it. It actually sounds like quite an adventure when you look at it that way.

Another way pantsing works is for murder mysteries. Jessica Frost (One of her pseudonyms) gave me fantastic advice...when writing a murder mystery, never decide who the killer is when you start. Just put out suspects with motives and decide whodunnit later. Genius!

I am a plotter. I jot down my beginning and my end, and make notes on the events that need to happen in between. I think I'm more comfortable doing it this way because I thoroughly enjoy writing essays. Yes. Essays. I like them. They are FUN.

I like the structure. For me it's quicker to take notes and flesh them out. It also makes writing a synopsis a little easier. You can just look at your notes and condense.Yes, it does happen where something else more exciting or more realistic pops up. That doesn't mean you can't throw it in and adjust your plot accordingly.

It's like cooking. If you have a basic recipe, but the dish needs a little something you throw it in and taste it to see if you need to add anything else. Did you throw in basil and now the sauce is too sweet? Add a little garlic powder, maybe. Did you add a romantic scene and it threw off your character arc? How about if the lovers have a fight that changes their opinion of one another? When you're done, it should be pleasing to a reader's palate.

Here's a secret: I rarely pants anything. If I do, I RARELY ever finish. Not due to lack of interest...I get lost. I miss important parts to the story. Then I throw up my hands in exasperation and spend hours trying to figure out where I was going in the first place. Then I toss the whole mess out without finishing it.

If you are a writer, or want to be, which one would you choose? Do you follow the recipe? Or throw in whatever you have in your cupboards? I'd love to know...

Now if you'll excuse me, I've made myself hungry. Maybe I'll just order Take-Out.

One Year Later...

April 29th, 2013 Our first photo of Spartacus Jones

On April 29th, 2013 a little grey and white cat followed my husband and my best friend home from a cigarette run. I remember that it was raining and snowing, because that was the reason I didn't go with them.

They told me about him when they got home, and I could hear him crying outside the window, so I asked them to bring him in. I wasn't about to leave an animal out in weather I wasn't willing to go for a short walk in.

It turned out to be one of those really awesome decisions one makes in their lifetime. It's right up there with convincing the troll I would be a good girlfriend and buying a house when interest rates dropped to 5%. (3 or 4 months after we bought our house Edmonton housing prices skyrocketed)

I was soooo ticked at my best friend for bringing the responsibility of this stray cat upon me. I regret telling her that. Now I know that not only was it absolutely meant to be, but it was the right thing to do. And I would do it again. In half a heartbeat. No more questions asked.

The photo above is the one I took so I could put him on Petlynx and various 'found' posters. Poor baby looks so scared and so thin. What if Darci hadn't found him? What if we hadn't taken him in?

We wouldn't have experienced the pure love that is Spartacus Jones. He is loyal like a dog. When we go outside, he follows, staying within sight at all times.  When I cry, he cuddles close and comforts me. He makes us laugh everyday. I can't believe someone somewhere just let him go, not even caring what happened to him. It hurts to think how people discard innocent pets, family members. Where is the compassion?

Last Thursday, I found a receipt from my vet, pinned to my bulletin board, dated for May of 2013....I was like "What is it doing here? That's a decent chunk of change, what is it for?" I remember now.  I took Spartacus Jones to my vet, looking for a tattoo or a microchip. While I was there, I had his shots updated, including one for outside cats, just in case. I had his ear mite infection taken care of.

He sat as close to me as he could, as in rightbesideme. My vet said "Look how much he loves you already." I said, "The feeling is already mutual." I think I knew when I brought him to the veterinary clinic that I was going to keep him.

I could go on and on, I could tell you how he chirps with joy when I join him outside, or how he tosses his head when I goad him into a game of tag, as if to say, "Oh, it's on now!" I could tell you how he loves to nap on and under my broomstick skirts while I'm wearing them. I could go on and on. Rest assured this is his forever home, and there will be more stories to tell.

Spartacus Jones one year later.

So Happy First Anniversary to my boy Spartacus Jones, my cosmic gift. So happy here's here.